As much as being grammatically correct is part of my writing
hopes, I am at the point of not caring. Please enjoy this essay paragraph that
should be a zillion different paragraphs…There are a lot of times I feel alone.
I feel like no one understands—a normal teenage feeling I have heard. But this
is different, this isn’t the average fuck you parents feeling. Instead I feel
absolutely vacant feelings. The feeling of emotions that leaves you with
nothing, the only partnered emotion is sadness. I want to feel angry, I want to
feel frustrated, but those feelings don’t exist in my world. Although my case
isn’t extreme or far advanced, it is clear that bi-polar can ruin your world.
One minute you are on top of the world—ecstatic, jovial, free—and experiencing the
actions synonymous with happiness like laughter and smiles. The next minute,
you are in a cave, a dark dark cave. Unlikely to find food, water, or light in
any future moment. It’s the feeling of abandonment, when you feel like everyone
is gone and doesn’t listen. When you have people you have brought close just so
they can tear apart your heart and sanity. When your live depends on theirs,
and you see them waste it away and not care. Do they respect me at all? Do they
realize how much it hurts me by doing what they do? I have learned it doesn’t
matter how much I try, I always fall behind or get frustrated or get lost. How
much of this is bi-polar versus just normal thought, I have no idea. What I do
know is that there is no getting rid of it. There are some nights I want to cry,
so I do. But there are others, that make it harder to cry. Being raised on the
idea that crying is weakness, it doesn’t matter how many people tell me
different. When you are raised on an ideal that is engraved in your head from
infant to near adulthood, it stays. I would never want to force this idea on
someone else, morally it shouldn’t be true. I can’t not think of it as
weakness. Even when you try so hard to help someone, and all they do in return
is walk backwards, soon enough they will be back where they started. What about
the future, what will you do then? Everything catches up to you. A family
friend just went through surgery. He might not be able to walk ever again. Again,
why does it have to take another person for me. They say it’s just a number,
but the number grows—150, 200, 250, 3—and shrinks—100, 90, 80, 70—as it pleases.
Weight isn’t something to be fucked around with. It can claim a life in a half
second, utilizing everything it can. Diabetes, Stroke, heart attack, broken
bones, illness…cancer. Life is much more cruel than death. One minute you are
normal, the next diabetic and if you aren’t careful you can be in the emergency
room having your toes removed. It’s funny how something as small as a toe can
change your whole sense in balance. Yet it is true, it does. Who would have
guessed when they were seven, that the cartoons weren’t shitting you. It is sad
while life is cruel you perceive it as the better option. With life there is
loss, there is pain, there is hatred and loneliness. With death, comes
serenity, family, friends, peace and light.